‘The Answer to Hate is Love’: Erika Kirk Forgives Her Husband’s Killer Before 70,000 Mourners

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At State Farm Stadium in Glendale, Arizona, tens of thousands gathered on Sunday, Sept. 21, to honor the life of slain conservative activist Charlie Kirk. The memorial drew nearly 90,000 people—about 70,000 inside the stadium and another 20,000 in overflow venues—making it one of the largest services for a private citizen in U.S. history, according to LifeSiteNews.

Among the many voices that rose to remember Kirk, none was more moving than that of his widow, Erika Kirk. In a moment of profound Christian witness, she stood before a grieving crowd and extended forgiveness to the man accused of taking her husband’s life.

A Forgiveness Rooted in Christ

“Our Savior said, ‘Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.’ That young man … I forgive him,” Erika said, pausing through tears as the entire stadium rose in a standing ovation (LifeSiteNews). Mediaite reported that the crowd’s response lasted nearly 46 seconds, with many wiping their eyes.

“I forgive him because it was what Christ did, and it’s what Charlie would do,” she added. “The answer to hate is not hate. The answer, we know from the Gospel, is love and always love.”

Her words echoed the heart of the Gospel and testified to the faith she and her late husband shared. “Charlie wanted to save young men, just like the one who took his life,” she said, pointing to his mission of reaching young men in crisis, according to Catholic News Agency.

A Revival from Tragedy

Despite her deep grief, Erika described how God’s mercy has been revealed in the days following the assassination. “After Charlie’s assassination, we didn’t see violence … Instead, we saw what my husband always prayed he would see in this country,” she told the crowd. “We saw revival” (LifeSiteNews).

She described how people across the nation began returning to the faith in response to her husband’s death. “This past week, we saw people open a Bible for the first time in a decade. We saw people pray for the first time since they were children. We saw people go to a church service for the first time in their entire lives” (CNA).

Turning directly to those touched by the moment, she added: “Pray again, read the Bible again, go to Church next Sunday and the Sunday after that, and break free from the temptations and shackles of this world” (CNA).

Leaders Point to Faith

The service drew an array of national leaders, including President Donald Trump, Vice President JD Vance, and cultural figures like Elon Musk and Tucker Carlson. President Trump described Kirk as a “martyr” and warned that his death was “an assault on our most sacred God-given liberties” (LifeSiteNews).

Vance, a Catholic, turned the focus to eternal truth: “It is better to be persecuted for your faith than to deny the kingship of Christ,” he said. “It is better to die a young man in this world than to sell your soul for an easy life with no purpose, no risk, no love, and no truth” (LifeSiteNews).

Carlson likewise emphasized that Kirk knew politics could not satisfy ultimate questions: “The only real solution is Jesus” (CNA).

Witness to the Cross

Through all the speeches, Erika’s testimony stood at the center. She reminded the world that her husband embraced his cross willingly, and that the Christian life is not meant to be easy. “Jesus said ‘if anyone would come after me, let him deny himself, take up his cross and follow me,’” she said. “He said he would be persecuted, he said we would be persecuted, and Charlie knew that and happily carried his cross all the way to the end” (CNA).

Her words transformed a national tragedy into a moment of spiritual renewal. As she stood before the stadium, broken yet unshaken, Erika Kirk offered a message both ancient and new: forgiveness in Christ is stronger than violence, and the way of love always triumphs over hate.


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