As another school year begins, Catholic families are called to reflect on the true meaning of education—not only in classrooms, but in homes. Education has never been merely the responsibility of teachers or institutions; it begins within the family, which the Catechism of the Catholic Church rightly calls the “domestic church.” Parents are the first and primary educators of their children, entrusted by God to form them in truth, virtue, and wisdom. Yet too often, this sacred duty is being forgotten.
The Erosion of Family Involvement
In today’s culture, parents and children alike are glued to their phones, isolated in a digital haze. Instead of gathering at the table for dinner, families scatter—some scrolling on social media, others bingeing on junk food and video games. Homework is neglected, meaningful conversations are absent, and many parents leave schools and screens to raise their children. We are raising a distracted and anxious generation that finds everything traumatic because they lack the anchor of strong family life.
Obesity rates among children are soaring, fueled not only by sedentary habits but by poor diets. Too many parents hand their kids Doritos, donuts, or soda instead of nourishing meals. The result is not only physical harm but also emotional instability, as children learn to seek comfort in processed food and entertainment rather than in healthy habits, prayer, and relationships. This is not the Catholic vision of family life. We must do better.
The Catholic Call to Family Unity
“For a deeper reflection, see the Family Prayer and Video on Catholic.org.”
The Church teaches that the family is the foundation of society and the school of love. A strong family begins with a strong marriage. Sadly, our culture normalizes divorce and single-parent households, but this is contrary to God’s design. Catholic marriage is a covenant, not a contract—it is meant to be faithful, fruitful, and permanent. Families thrive when mother and father work together in unity, raising children with shared love, discipline, and example. Children desperately need to see their parents praying together, working together, and living out their vocation with fidelity.
Back-to-school season is the perfect moment to renew this commitment. Parents must reclaim their role—not as passive bystanders, but as leaders. Helping with homework, talking about school friends, monitoring influences, and attending after-school sports are not optional extras; they are essential parts of forming a child. By staying involved, parents not only help their children excel academically but also safeguard their moral and spiritual development.
Practical Steps for Catholic Families
How can families begin this renewal? First, establish routines of prayer and mealtime together. Turn off the phones, gather at the table, and talk. Discuss what children are learning, who their friends are, and how they are handling challenges at school. This not only strengthens bonds but also builds trust, so children know they can confide in their parents.
Second, be actively present in their education. Sit with them during homework, even if only for a short time. Read with them. Encourage excellence in math, reading, and writing—skills that many students are alarmingly lacking today. Education is not just about grades; it is about forming capable, thoughtful, virtuous men and women who can serve God and society.
Third, promote health. Feed children nourishing, whole foods. Limit processed snacks. Encourage physical activity through sports, walking, or simply outdoor play. Children who are active and well-fed are not only healthier but also calmer, happier, and more prepared to learn.
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A Call to Return
This school year, let us not repeat the mistakes of the past. Let us not allow phones, distractions, or fractured families to rob children of the stability and love they deserve. As Catholics, we must model what it means to live as true families—united, prayerful, attentive, and committed. The world may tell us to outsource parenting to schools or technology, but Christ reminds us: “Let the little children come to me” (Matthew 19:14). Our mission is to lead them there, hand in hand, as families fully alive in God’s grace.
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