An article on LifeNews shared a deeply moving blog post that surfaced on Facebook. The reflection, titled “My Other Daughter,” was both a tribute and a quiet plea for forgiveness from a woman who, 23 years earlier, had undergone an abortion. The post reveals a heartfelt journey of regret and healing, and in doing so, sheds light on the emotional aftermath of abortion, which many in the pro-life movement argue is often overlooked.
The author of the post, identified as “Marilou,” begins by discussing her experience of giving up her first daughter for adoption. At first glance, her decision might appear to be one of courage and selflessness, but as the story unfolds, Marilou confesses a deeper sorrow—the abortion of a second child. This revelation is striking, especially as it contrasts with the initial narrative.
Marilou shares a poignant moment when her surviving daughter, Anna, expressed gratitude for Marilou’s love, saying, “Thank you for loving me enough.” However, as Marilou writes, she also heard a different voice—one from her aborted child. “While Anna was thanking me for ‘loving her enough,’ I also heard my other daughter’s voice saying, ‘how come you didn’t love me enough?’” This moment serves as a powerful reminder of the emotional toll abortion can have, not just on the mother but on the child who was lost.
The blog entry captures a profound sense of regret and yearning for forgiveness. Marilou’s words are filled with raw emotion as she writes a message to the child she never had the chance to raise: “I’m sorry Baby Girl for not loving you like God wanted me to. You ARE full of worth. You are God’s precious creation, made with care and given a purpose even before the world began.” The prayerful tone of her words acknowledges the sanctity of life and the inherent worth of every child, regardless of the circumstances of their conception.
This story also highlights a common narrative often ignored by those who promote abortion. Many in the pro-abortion camp assert that women rarely suffer from the emotional consequences of abortion, suggesting that any post-abortion regret is merely a result of pre-existing emotional baggage. This notion is rejected in the reflection, as Marilou clearly expresses the pain she feels, not just for herself, but for her lost child.
One commenter on the post wrote, “You and your ‘other daughter’ may have saved a life today. Thank you for sharing your story,” a sentiment that speaks to the impact of Marilou’s honesty and vulnerability. By sharing her story, Marilou has brought attention to the enduring emotional scars that abortion can leave behind and has perhaps inspired others to reconsider their choices or seek healing.
The reflection serves as a sobering reminder of the profound and lasting consequences of abortion. For those who have experienced abortion, Marilou’s powerful expression of regret may offer solace, understanding, and the hope of healing. Her concluding words provide a message of love and redemption: “You are wanted, you are precious, you are loved!”
This heartfelt plea for forgiveness serves as an emotional call to action for the pro-life movement and those who advocate for the sanctity of life. It encourages reflection, healing, and a renewed commitment to the dignity of every human being.
As the post demonstrates, the journey toward healing after abortion is not an easy one, but it is a journey that can be made with the grace of forgiveness and the recognition of God’s love for all His creations.
